Etiquette Tips for Attending a Funeral or Memorial Service
Etiquette Tips for Attending a Funeral or Memorial Service
At Funeral.Sydney, we understand that funerals and memorial services can be difficult events to navigate. You want to be respectful and supportive without saying or doing the wrong thing.
Here are some etiquette tips to keep in mind when attending a service:
- Dress appropriately - Wear something formal and modest to show respect. Avoid casual clothes or bright colours/patterns unless requested.
- Arrive on time - Make an effort to be punctual so you don't disrupt the service. Allow extra time to account for traffic or parking.
- Turn off phones - Silence your mobile and refrain from taking photos/videos unless approved by the family. Be present in the moment.
- Express condolences - Offer sincere condolences to the immediate family. Say something simple like “I’m sorry for your loss” and avoid clichés.
- Avoid gossip - Don’t use the service as a chance to gossip. Keep conversations respectful and focused on the deceased.
- Follow instructions - Listen to any specific requests from the officiant or family regarding procedures.
- Don’t linger - Be considerate when greeting the family before/after the service. Don’t overstay if they need privacy.
- Send thanks - Consider sending a card or note after the service if you connected with the family.