Etiquette Tips for Sending Funeral Flowers
Etiquette Tips for Sending Funeral Flowers
Flowers have traditionally been a meaningful way to express condolences to the bereaved. If you wish to send flowers after someone’s passing, here are some funeral flower etiquette tips from the experts at Funeral.Sydney:
- Send the arrangement to the funeral home or service location so the family doesn’t have to transport them.
- Include a card with a simple, sincere message like “Thinking of you in this difficult time.” Avoid trite phrases.
- Florals in the deceased’s favourite colours or symbolic flowers they loved can be a nice personal touch.
- Lilies, roses and carnations are classic funeral flower choices, but any elegant blooms are appropriate.
- Go modest in size - large elaborate displays can seem showy or overwhelm the venue.
- For cremations, consider a living plant instead that the family can take home as a memorial.
- If you can’t attend the service, timely delivery close to the funeral date shows respect.
- Pick same-day local florist delivery to ensure freshness if the service is out of town.
- Call the **funeral home** ahead to confirm flower policies and arrange best delivery timing.
- A donation to a charity the deceased supported makes a thoughtful alternative to flowers.
- For cultures that consider flowers inappropriate, give food, candles or donation gifts instead.
- Extend your condolences to the family beyond just the funeral flowers if possible.