Planning a Funeral or Memorial Service from Afar
Planning a Funeral or Memorial Service from Afar
When a loved one passes in another state or country, planning their funeral or memorial service at a distance presents challenges. At Funeral.Sydney, our knowledgeable funeral directors are here to guide families coordinating services remotely.
If planning long-distance arrangements, keep these tips in mind:
- Ask a trusted friend or relative closer to the location to act as your point person for communicating with the funeral home and making in-person decisions.
- Do research to select a reputable local funeral home with expertise handling out-of-town coordinators and diverse funeral customs.
- Provide the funeral home contact you choose with your full name, relationship to the deceased, phone number, email, and time zone so they can reach you easily.
- Ask the funeral home to live stream services via webcam or do a pre-recorded video so remote family and friends can view.
- Give clear instructions on your preferences for burial, cremation, casket options, flowers, music, programme details, customs, etc.
- For cremation, look into transportation regulations and funeral home policies on mailing or escorted transport of ashes to you.
- Inquire about ways to participate long-distance like submitting photos, recordings, written tributes, or items to display.
- Send personalised touches like flower arrangements, memory boards, photos, etc. ahead to the site.
- Have keepsakes made from funeral flowers or recordings to mail to you after the service.
- View and approve any service details by email if possible before finalising.